Similarities and Differences on Communication Evaluations

I asked my co-teacher and husband to evaluate me on my communication skills concerning verbal aggressiveness, comunication anxiety and listening skills. While both my hushband and co-teacher gave me similar scores and great feedback on my  the level of communication anxiety and my listening skills, there was a huge difference in their evaluation with my verbal aggressiveness. My co-teacher felt like I was on the low end of the spectum while my husband felt like I was on the high end of verbal agressiveness. I was able to understand the computer score of my verbal aggressiveness after reflecting on the comments of my husband and co-teacher. In the professional envrionment I am more consisous and considerate  of other people's feelings and view points while in my personal life I tend to be more agressive with trying to get my point across. This was defineltly a news flash for me. The information from this assignment has shown me that I am a great listerner, have low to mild communication anxiety and situational verbal aggressiveness. I look forward to working on my verbal aggressiveness and making sure that it doe not damage the quality of my communication skills.